Renunciation of desire : Self Forgiveness

When we learn to forgive our self then and only then we will be able to forgive others

When we forgive self we get detach to the part that wants to keep us trapped inside a circle of blame, shame, guilt, and fear. These are a part of our ego.

Most people think that when you forgive someone, you are doing them a favor and that's not true. When we forgive someone else or something that self have done, we really are helping self.

When we are unable to forgive ourselves or others, it stays in our energy field until we can. If we don't clear that energy in this lifetime through forgiving and releasing it, we will have to resolve it in another lifetime. This is a desire cycle. We need to get rid of these desires to be on path of salvation.